You’re telling people
You’re telling people you want to have six pack abs. you’re telling people you want to be a successful author or a successful business owner. You tell people that your family means everything to you. Okay then. So, if that’s true, those are the things you should be spending the majority of your time on right? Instead, what you will probably find is that your lifestyle looks something more like this: Sleep: 6-7 Hours Work: 8-9 Hours Commuting: 1-2 Hours Lunch Break: 30 Minutes Everything else: ~5 Hours And in those roughly five hours , you need to fit in waking up, getting ready for the day, washing dishes, doing the laundry, cooking. Now ask me again why you don’t have the lifestyle you want? You claim that your goals and dreams are your top priority and yet you don’t live a life that reflects that in the slightest. This reminds me very much of the problem with modern politics.